“Father With 35 Kids Won’t Support His Kids and Says He Has More Kids On The Way DETS Inside!!”

If you were expecting read that trash you were wrong. You see this post is my little experiment to get you to face your reality. Call it my version of “Beyond Scared Straight” and I am Diablo.

One of the most frustrating things is to see how people with the most to lose, focus on the most distracting things. Things like the title. You ain’t got a pot to pee in and instead of focusing on articles that improve your life, y’all are sharing fight videos and ass shots. COME ON!! You are focusing on things that steal our time, energy and creativity from our lives. For example, I can post the most ratchet trash like this title and it will get millions of likes, shares and views. However, when we talk about goals and making positive changes in our lives, only a few will listen. Why is that?

I believe it is easy to focus on the lives, misfortunes and mistakes of others instead of working on ourselves. Why? Either we believe we are unworthy of achieving our goals or we believe we have no chance of accomplishing them so what is the point. We might as well settle and wait to die. Those are lies we tell ourselves because they are easy. It is easy to quit. It is easy to give up. It is easy to judge someone else instead of looking at ourselves and taking responsibility for our lives. It is hard to own your own life.

You see that is the difference between those who are successful and those who are not. Success is not about where you come from or who you are. Successful people own their own lives. They focus their energy on their goals. They have created a life plan and decided to do the hard task of following through with it. That is it.

The ball is in your court. What do you want to do? Do want to go through life waiting to die so that when everyone looks down on your casket they’d see your hopes dreams, goals and potential lying in that casket with you or do you want to live the life of your dreams? It is up to you.

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Thank you for reading and don’t be mad. I still love y’all.

Kisha aka Bougie Black Girl

*UPDATE* Share post this with your networks. If they comment simply based on the title, they do not read your posts. This is our opportunity to teach because those people are the ones who need to hear this message. Thanks again.